First relationship we have with another human being is with our mother.

The first relationship we have with another human being is with our mother. She loved us before we were born and apart from God, I doubt there will be anyone else who will love us more. By virtue of this I believe the person that has loved us at first sight is our mother.

During the first few years of our lives, mum’s our doctor, teacher, housekeeper, cook and so much more. Throughout the world when we hear the word MA a feeling of warmth and love envelopes us, like no other word can.

As we get older mum can symbolize, the person that embarrasses us infront of our friends, or tortures us with her unwanted kisses. Even though we may treat her like the scum below our shoes, her love for her children never falters or fades.

Then comes the phase when we believe our mothers are being overprotective or downright selfish when she doesn’t want us to go out with that tattooed guy with the motorbike, ‘just because she never had someone who loved her that way.’ Teenage years can bring with it mixed feelings between a mother and her child, if not handled properly it can destroy the relationship forever.

When we ourselves become parents that’s when we realize how cruel we had been to our mothers, or do we?

Sometimes the rift between mothers and daughters can lead to lifelong separation and hurt. Ma, being the Universal word for love can never be reduced   nor can it be destroyed. A mother’s heart is the pulse of energy of compassion and protection.

At no time should we allow ourselves to be sucked into a vacuum, empty and void of our mothers love. Oftentimes the only thing destroying relationships are our egos. When we move past our egos and are able to apologise and forgive freely, then only can we love like only a mother can.

Suyan Budhoo – Relationship Coach in Pretoria

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Whatever comes after the words I am is entirely up to you.

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During the month of love, we at Success Focus are focusing on relationships, the relationship with yourself, your loved one’s, colleagues and the rest of the world. Be sure to catch all the articles in this series.

My Relationship with Myself

Whatever comes after the words I am is entirely up to you. You can choose words like I am weak, worthless, depressed, sad and have results such as sickness, depression and even death show up in your life or you can choose words like I am strong, happy, wealthy, healthy and prosperous. As soon as you said those positive words, didn’t you sit up and feel confident, like a waterfall washing over you, leaving you refreshed. I Am, affirmations create a sense that “I Am” worthy and powerful. Nobody should ever forget that they matter in this world.

Nobody can make you feel the way do, except you. So why not choose to live in harmony with the world rather than in resistance. Living in harmony does not mean you have to forget about your uniqueness, it just means that no matter what challenges show up in your life, you will achieve that which is important to you. Use the challenges as opportunities, opportunities to overcome your fears and develop your strength.

As parents we sometimes rob ourselves of loving and caring for ourselves, thinking that our children should always come first, at any cost. By doing this we are turning our children into bullies and self-centred monsters. They will start to believe that they are all important, and mums feelings are not. The world out there will teach them a very different lesson, no matter how special mum thinks they are. Mum’s need for peace and happiness is in no way less than her sons need for playing soccer.

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We are all whole and complete, the only person that can make us feel any less is the person in the mirror. To keep that person in the mirror happy you need to remind yourself daily that God moulded you in his image, shouldn’t you love yourself the way God loved you.

Suyan Budhoo – Relationship Coach in Pretoria

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How often do we just let life happen to us, without any idea of where we would like to end up

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Of all the species in the world you were born a human being. According to science and religion, this is the highest known species yet. Now that you know how awesome you are, what are you going to do about it?

How often do we just let life happen to us, without any idea of where we would like to end up. Knowing that you are the highest species on earth shouldn’t you now be alive to the fact that your life and time is worth so much more. Unlike in the past when men were laughed upon for having “impossible” and “unreasonable” dreams, people are now encouraged to be different.

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Be an original they say, an original is worth more than a fake. When you live each day with passion you appreciate yourself and others more. You tend to fill your days with the things you love instead of being robbed of your precious time by insignificant issues. Life seems more colourful and full of adventure. Being grateful for each day, you are rewarded with only more to be grateful. Sharing yourappreciation for life, brings with it an abundance of life, friends, prosperity and happiness.

Nothing is impossible and the moon seems too low for where you want to go. This passion for life is what will get you through those days when self-doubt and fear starts to creep in. Your realisation of how great you are can actually push you towards that big scary dream that you have,  Impossible is a myth, do not believe in it.Believe only in your dream, in your ability to turn it into reality and the reason why you deserve it.

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