The type of relationship a child has with his/her father

Dad, a girls first superman and a boys first James Bond, maybe that’s taking it a little too far, nonetheless you get the picture. Fathers, in the past have been portrayed as that man that leaves for work early in the morning and returns late, usually sitting infront of the tv or behind a newspaper. They did not play a major role in their children’s educational, recreational or spiritual lives, however their role seems to have changed over the past few decades.

Fathers now play a more active role in their children’s education, attending school meetings, helping with homework and even playing chauffeur. Perhaps circumstances, with both parents having to work, forced these added responsibilities onto them or could it be that they are genuinely interested?

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Parents and Kids Relationship

Whatever the reason, this new age dad is just the answer to today’s social problems. Studies have shown that children living with both parents are emotionally more stable and display a higher level of confidence than children coming from single parent families. It has also been proven that homes with both parents have better financial stability. Despite all the encouragement from government and civil society, South Africa still sits with the dilemma that only 33% of children under the age of 5 come from homes with both parents living together.

Whether it is because of divorce or people just deciding not to marry, the truth is, children need their fathers to be part of their lives. It is important for a father to provide financially for his children as well as to have contact time, physical affection, day-to-day involvement and supportive communication.

The type of relationship a child has with his/her father can determine the kind of relationship he/she will forge with their spouse, co-workers and even their own children. Being a good father does not only mean fulfilling the obligations set out by the law. A good father is that man who will stay up late while his son studies for his matric exams or while his daughter completes her art assignment. He is that man who will take his son to the golf course on a Saturday, instead of spending it with his friends and he is that man who will spend an entire day shopping with his daughter for that perfect pair of shoes. At the end of the day, these are the memories his children will cherish of their superhero.

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It may have been difficult trying to accomplish these goals

life coach pretoriaAt the beginning of every year many of us resolve to exercise more, quit smoking or make some kind of life changing resolution but within weeks or even a few short days, we fail to stick to these resolutions. It may have been difficult trying to accomplish these goals in the past because you did not have a blueprint to follow. Don’t despair, 2016 is going to be the year in which you eventually lose the unwanted weight, quit smoking or achieve all that your heart desires.

The first step in reaching any goal is desire. Desire is a strong craving towards achieving something great. Desires are borne of the values that are important to us. Every human being is unique and holds close to them a different set of values. Only you know what you desire. Nobody can or should be allowed to tell you what is important to you. Once you have discovered your goals, you should not let anything stand between you and your achievements.

We cannot achieve our goals without an action plan. In pursuit of our hearts desire we cannot think of the steps that we need to take as work or laborious, I therefore like to refer to it as a design. Design brings to mind creative, fun, the product of which is a beautiful master piece. This is how I view every human life, a master piece. A master piece should be treated with care, as should your life. Designing your life shows that you care about yourself, and if you care about something wouldn’t you like to see it blossom into the best it can be?

Nothing great ever comes by chance or luck. Every person that ever succeeded will tell you that it took dedication to get them there. Life happens to everyone, there will challenges, fear and doubt that will show up without a warning. What you need to do is stay focused with the end goal in mind, and the one thing that will take you to the end is your dedication and commitment to be the best that you can be.

Make your 2016, the year in which you made every dream come true. Live your master life, be all that you were meant to be. Focus on Success, remember all it takes is desire, design and dedication.

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